Today is our 20 Year Kidney-versary!
My cup runneth over with gratitude today as my sister and I celebrate the 20th anniversary of our successful surgeries on October 19, 2004. One of my kidneys was removed to be placed in her abdomen to give her life, untethered to the dialysis machine keeping her alive. Dialysis, though, is a miracle of modern science, too. Our grandmother died before dialysis, just as it was being invented by Dr. Willem Kollf far away in the Netherlands. Sadly, doctors in Chicago had nothing to save her when her kidneys failed. Our mother was a teenager when our grandmother died. Five of my grandmother’s six children inherited the genetic disease, Polycystic Kidney Disease (PKD), that took the life of our grandmother. Years later dialysis saved our mother’s life and kept her alive for almost ten years until she was bless to receive a kidney transplant from a deceased donor. I am filled with joy and humility at the miracle of transplantation. How does the tiny Divine spark that we call life remain in the kidney and then do its magic and keep another person alive and free of dialysis? I marvel at the miracle of modern science. I kneel in gratitude to our Creator for the gift that life is. I was so frightened twenty years ago about the surgery. Never having had anesthesia, I was afraid I might die. I felt so alone. This was before social media. I was (and am) The Reluctant Donor. But, I went through with it and success! Oh, how happy I am to have witnessed my sister bloom with health! To see her dance at her daughters weddings, to be there for the birth of her grandchildren, to compete with our other sister at the Transplant Games and win a medal and to know how happy her life has been since that incredible day twenty years ago. There is risk involved in being a donor. There are not always happy outcomes, and I mourn for those who have not had the same joyous results as we have. Life is truly a mystery. More and more I believe that God’s plans for us are hard to understand and I sometimes have to struggle to trust in the Lord. But He tells us we won’t understand everything while we are here. Today, though, I won’t think – I’ll just rejoice!...
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https://gofund.me/5f4f9e90Aldo has been on dialysis for 21 years! That is truly difficult and a testament to his self-discipline and will to live. Aldo has worked full time while raising a family. Doctors have told him he is failing, Our church has united to help him find a kidney and to raise funds to support him and his family. Life . . . helping one another, loving one another.
Read MoreTrust in the Lord
Often when I worry, worry, worry as I am prone to do, my mother would say to me, “trust in the Lord.” Growing up in a religious family , I’ve heard that a million times. It sure is hard to do when times are tough. It’s lovely and almost easy to do when things are going smoothly, the day is beautiful, and life is good. It brings to mind the story of Thomas, the apostle who did not believe it when the other apostles told them, “We have seen the Lord!” Thomas had witnessed the death of Jesus on the cross and refused to believe them, saying, “Unless I see the nail marks in His hands and put my finger where his nail marks have been, and put my hands into His side, I will never believe.” That is one of my favorite stories, because as it is written, Jesus did appear later to Thomas – coming into a locked room no less! Thomas was able to see His nail marks and put his hand in the wound in the Lord’s side. I love that story. Thomas was so happy to see Jesus! Jesus even gave me a message that day: “Blessed are they who have not seen and yet believe.” I need to stop whining and worrying and just trust. Trust in the...
Read More26 Years Post Transplant
My sister Janice wasn’t even forty-years old when she suffered renal failure. She knew it was coming . . . the end of life as she knew it. That’s what happens when you have a genetic disease in the family – you know what you’re in for . . . As she became sicker, she added her name to the transplant waiting list. Her kidney function had declined to dangerous levels. Back then – in 1995, there weren’t as many people’s names on the waiting list compared to today. There were not quite 37,000 names on the list compared to over 110,000 today. Hope was wearing thin. The doctors scheduled Janice to start dialysis on Wednesday, January 11, 1995. Somewhere a terrible tragedy occurred resulting in the death of a child the day before Janice was due to start dialysis. A child saved my sister – a child whose parents donated the child’s organs. I think of the child and the family often. Sorrow and our Joy intertwined. I will be forever...
Read MoreLiving Organ Donation Reimbursement Program
by Suzanne Ruff, AAKP Board of Directors Member Within families who battle kidney disease as my family does, there is a time for sorrow and a time for joy, a time for weeping and a time for dancing. For many of my family members with complete renal failure, organ donation is their only hope. Some because they had been on dialysis for many years, others because they did not want to be on dialysis. Pre-emptive transplantation (receiving a kidney transplant before dialysis) is recommended more and more. Finding a living donor is strongly encouraged, but it is not easy thing to ask of someone. On July 10, 2019, President Donald J. Trump signed an Executive Order on Advancing American Kidney Health. The American Association of Kidney Patients (AAKP) has also designated that this is the Decade of the KidneyTM. It is encouraging to know that kidney disease is being actively addressed and innovative solutions are implemented, including the elimination of roadblocks that might make finding a living donor easier. Hope is the quintessential weapon to battle kidney disease. As I read the Executive Order, it gives hope. One part of the order refers to the issues that greatly concern a potential living donor as they contemplate their decision to donate. Section 8 of the Executive Order reads as follows: Sec. 8. Supporting Living Organ Donors. Within 90 days of the date of this order, the Secretary shall propose a regulation to remove financial barriers to living organ donation. The regulation should expand the definition of allowable costs that can be reimbursed under the Reimbursement of Travel and Subsistence Expenses Incurred Toward Living Organ Donation program, raise the limit on the income of donors eligible for reimbursement under the program, allow reimbursement for lost-wage expenses, and provide for reimbursement of child-care and elder-care expenses. As of September 2020, the Living Organ Reimbursement Program is to expand the scope of qualified reimbursable expenses incurred by living organ donors to include lost wages, child-care, and elder- care expenses. We have had five living donors within our family of nine transplants (eight kidney transplants and one liver transplant) among eight different people. I am one of the five living kidney donors. I did not even consider the costs and hardships that a living donor incurs when my sister collapsed in critical condition from renal failure–a time for weeping. I am from a family that supports one another, both physically, emotionally, and financially when one of us is down and out. In 2004, there were no resources anyway. It’s been sixteen years since I became a living donor and my sister is healthy, happy, and thriving–a time for dancing. Fast forward to 2020. Six very short days ago, as I began to assemble information to write this article, my cousin’s son received a kidney from his cousin, a single mother with a ten-year-old child. Both are recovering and I asked them for their thoughts about the Living Organ Donation Reimbursement Program. Neither one of them had a clue that there was a program to help living donors! When I sent the information to my cousin’s son, the recipient, Christopher Burgess, his comment (succinctly given while recuperating) is as follows: “I think there is a flaw still in the law since it takes into account the income of the recipients. Donors can feel guilty asking for reimbursement for some costs from a person that is sick so that caveat probably limits possible donors who need support. That said, I think it’s great to expand the law to care for donors who sacrifice so...
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